SAI Home  |  Definition & Examples  |  Therapy Programs | Audio Therapy Series

Being Myself
Self-Statements for Social Anxiety

By M. L.

I am just as important as anyone else is.

I have the right to express my opinion whenever I feel like it, no matter what.

I am calmly and confidently in control of my own life.

I accept and feel good about myself.

I have a nice personality with many attractive qualities.

More importantly, I am caring and sensitive to the feelings of others.

When I speak my mind, and act as I am, the response I receive is often very positive.

I can carry on a conversation just as well as anyone else, so why should I be inhibited when I have many things to say?

This inhibition is my ANTs voice lying to me, and is nothing more than a lie. I just need to be myself, and say what I have to say, because I can’t go wrong when I do this.

I don't  need to feel like I have to be humorous or entertain others.

I just need to loosen up and be myself. I can always be as serious as I want, and I can always be as ridiculous as I want. It doesn’t really matter, just as long as I’m being me.

When a conversation is taking place and I have something to say, I will not think about it. I’ll just say it. I am not intruding or being rude. Chances are people will like what I have to say, and if they don’t, who really cares? In the grand scheme of things, how important is one tiny conversation anyway?

There is no "certain way" to act or be. Whatever I do or say is OK.

I don’t care if others disapprove. I choose to surround myself with people who I like and enjoy, and who share the same interests as I do. I don’t have to like everyone, and they don’t have to like me. This is perfectly normal.

Only when I stop allowing the thinking of others to affect the way I act, can I become myself and be happy.
 

NEW CBT Therapy Groups begin Saturday, January 28, 2012


Audio Therapy:  
"Overcoming Social Anxiety: Step By Step"

What is Social Anxiety? More Information about Social Anxiety 

Therapy Programs at The Social Anxiety Institute

True Stories About Overcoming Social Anxiety

Social Anxiety Bookstore | Mailing List

Help and Support Pages for "Overcoming Social Anxiety"

VIDEOS:  Max,   Julie,   James,   Mike, and  Zeke talk about Overcoming Social Anxiety

 

follow Dr. Richards on Follow drtrichards on Twitter SAI on Facebook

©Copyright  2012, 1996,  The Social Anxiety Institute, Inc.
Thomas A. Richards, Ph.D.,
Psychologist/Director

Back To Top